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How to Find My Ideal Customer?

October 22, 2025
AICE Team
9 min read
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How to Find My Ideal Customer?

For any business leader, the landscape is crowded with critical decisions. But beneath every strategic layer lies a single, foundational question that brings clarity to everything else: “Who am I building this for?”

Getting this wrong wastes resources on marketing that doesn’t connect and features nobody wants. But getting it right aligns your entire organization, hones your focus, and creates a clear path from first contact to loyal advocate. The answer to this question is your Ideal Customer Profile (ICP) - and defining it is a non-negotiable for growth.

I sat down with our Chief Product Officer, Dan Akenhead, to gain expert insights into this topic!

This guide is your practical playbook to go from a vague audience idea to a crystal-clear, actionable ICP that drives real results. Let’s answer one of the most important questions you’ll face when starting a business: “How do I find my Ideal Customer?”

What is an Ideal Customer Profile (ICP)?


Let’s start with the basics. An Ideal Customer Profile is a detailed portrait of the perfect customer for your product or service. This isn’t just a demographic; it’s a comprehensive picture of the company or person that gets the most value from what you offer and, in turn, provides the most value to you.

"It's essentially someone that your product would be perfect for because you built it to solve a problem that person has," Dan explains. "That could be their age, their lifestyle, or their job status. It goes into great depth so you can talk in a deeper way to that person."

The profile is built around one core concept: the pain point. Your ideal customer has a specific problem, and your product is the perfect solution.

ICP vs. Buyer Persona: Know the Difference

While often used interchangeably, these two concepts serve distinct purposes. Think of it as a two-level targeting system.

  • Ideal Customer Profile (ICP): This describes the company that is a perfect fit for your solution, especially in B2B. It focuses on firmographics like industry, company size, revenue, and location.
  • Buyer Persona: This is a semi-fictional representation of the individual within that ideal company who makes purchasing decisions. It details their job title, goals, challenges, and motivations.

"An ICP could be a B2B company with roughly 100 people," Dan clarifies. "Then a buyer persona could be a marketing manager within that company whose name is Sarah. It's always a person that makes a decision at the end of the day."

The key is to understand that you market to the persona's pain points. Your goal is to turn 'Sarah the Marketing Manager' into an internal champion. You connect with her emotional need for a solution, empowering her to build the logical business case to convince her company (the ICP) to make the purchase.

Why do I need one?


Good question, I thought you might ask that!

Trying to appeal to everyone is a classic newbie business mistake that results in appealing to no one. A well-defined ICP is a strategic tool that acts as a North Star for your entire business, providing two critical advantages.

1. It Hones Your Focus and Aligns Your Team

An ICP acts as the ultimate tie-breaker, ending internal debates and focusing resource allocation. "If there's a disagreement, it always brings it back to: who are we trying to target here?" Dan notes. "This centers everyone's focus. For this person, does it work? Yes or no. It's really simple." This ensures that marketing, sales, and product teams are all working toward the same goal.

2. It Prevents Wasted Resources

A focused ICP creates what Dan calls a "beautiful line of conversion." Your marketing speaks directly to the customer's pain point, attracting the exact person who has that problem. Your product then solves that problem, leading to higher satisfaction and preventing you from spending money on marketing that doesn't resonate or building features for customers who won't value them.

Great! I’m sold… Give me the steps


Here’s a 3-step guide to finding your ideal customer

For a new business with no data, this task can seem daunting. But the process is one of discovery, not invention.

Step 1. Start with Powerful Market Research

If you're starting from scratch, begin with research. Dan advises two types:

  • Secondary Research: Look at existing data. What are the general market trends for your industry? Is there a growing demand for the problem you're solving? This validates your general direction.
  • Primary Research: Go out and talk to real people. "There's so much good data out there on Reddit," Dan recommends. Find a niche subreddit related to your product, post about what you're building, and ask for interviews. As you talk to people, you'll "start to see correlations between demographics, behaviors, and the pain point," which forms the foundation of your first ICP.

Step 2. Analyze Your Best Existing Customers

If your business is already running, the answer is in your data. Compile a list of your 'best' customers by identifying those with the highest Lifetime Value (LTV), Net Promoter Score (NPS), product engagement, and renewal rates. Once you have this list, look for common attributes across:

  • Firmographics: Industry, company size, location.
  • Demographics: Age, gender, job title.
  • Psychographics: Their values, attitudes, and lifestyles.

Step 3. Balance Quantitative and Qualitative Data

Analytics tell you what people are doing. Interviews tell you why. You need both.

  • Quantitative: Use your product analytics to spot trends. "We added a persona based on the analytics," Dan recalls from a previous company. "The analytics showed we were getting an older age group into our product."

  • Qualitative: Conduct interviews to understand the emotional drivers behind the data. Uncover their deepest pain points, their goals, and their emotional response to the problem you solve. Ask open-ended questions like: 'Can you walk me through the last time you dealt with [problem]?' or 'What does a successful outcome look like for you in this area?'

A Crucial Warning: Don’t Mistake Correlation for Causation.

Analytics are powerful, but with a small data set, they can be misleading. A common trap is seeing a pattern and assuming it's the cause of success. Dan offers a stark warning for founders:

"I'm sure that companies have probably signed their death certificate by finding a correlation metric which they've then gone to town on, which wasn't actually causing what they thought it was."

Always validate quantitative findings with qualitative interviews to understand the 'why' behind the numbers before making major strategic shifts.

How to Use Your ICP?


An ICP document shouldn't just sit on a shelf. It must be a living tool that guides daily decisions.

1. Bring Your ICP to Life

Data can feel sterile. The most effective ICPs are humanized. Give your personas a name, a face, and a story to create an emotional connection for your team.

Dan shared an example from a fitness tech company: "We had a guy called Adrian who had three kids and didn't have time to go to the gym. We also had a woman called Stacy who was very intimidated by the gym."

Crucially, Adrian and Stacy can represent two distinct personas for the same product. This highlights an important nuance: it’s common and strategic to have multiple personas. A single product often solves different problems for different people. Adrian’s pain point is a lack of time (a need for convenience), while Stacy’s is a lack of confidence (a need for guidance). By defining both, the company can tailor features and marketing messages to each, without losing focus.

This simple act of humanizing makes the customer real. Conversations transform. Instead of vague debates, the team asks, "Would Adrian be too busy for this feature?" or "I feel like Stacy would find this intimidating." It grounds your work in helping a person, not just serving a "user."

2. Make It a Living Document

Your ICP is not a "set it and forget it" exercise. Markets shift and customers evolve. Use your analytics to create a continuous feedback loop.

"It's always being refined," Dan emphasizes. "That analytics piece will inform your ICP. Your ICP will tweak slightly, which then tweaks your marketing because your conversion rate may be higher in a certain demographic."

The #1 Mistake you MUST Avoid


The single biggest pitfall companies face is creating an ICP that is too broad. "The more niche and the more specific you can go, the better the product will be," Dan warns.

He gives the classic flawed example of targeting "moms aged between 25 and 45." How can you speak to both a 25-year-old and a 45-year-old with the same message? They are in completely different life stages and demographics. A 25-year-old new mother has vastly different challenges and values than a 45-year-old mother of teenagers. Trying to appeal to both results in a generic message that resonates with no one.

True focus is about deciding who you are not for. By zeroing in on the customer you can serve best, you build a foundation for sustainable growth.

Summary


Defining your Ideal Customer Profile isn't just a strategic exercise; it's the foundation of your growth. It aligns your team, sharpens your product, and ensures you aren't just building something, but building something for someone.

But in an age increasingly dominated by AI and automation, this process takes on an even deeper meaning. As Dan notes, in this new landscape, "understanding human emotion becomes more prevalent than ever." Your ideal customer profile is not just a data set; it’s your primary tool for forging a genuine human connection. Use this clarity to turn your promising idea into an enduring, successful business that doesn’t just solve a problem, but truly resonates with the people it’s designed to serve.